It’s not that I am not triggered, it’s just that I don’t try to avoid my triggers.
10 Ways Dad Can Support a Breastfeeding Mom
All moms, regardless of how they feed their babies, need support. But often, especially with a breastfeeding mom, we hear, “There is nothing he can do!” because 100% of the feeding falls on Mom and a lot of those early…
A Slow Approach to the New Year
I won’t put pressure on myself to start strong or commit to something early, I’ll allow myself to warm up to the ideas with the seasons.
Wishing You a Gentle Bereaved Mother’s Day
Bereaved Mother’s Day falls on the Sunday before Mother’s Day not to exclude the bereaved from traditional Mother’s Day, but to honor them in their own special way.
How to get your baby to sleep
You don’t need baby to sleep 8 hours, you need to not feel exhausted, you need to not be at the end of your rope. What you need is rest.
7 Ways to Stay Calm While TTC
While relaxing is not going to magically make you fall pregnant, it will make trying to conceive a little less stressful.
Taking The Risk
A strong marriage, a good job, a nice house, a beautiful kid, and a fancy car do not and will not ever equal happiness unless…
I QUIT
I’m quitting needing you. I guess, in a way, I am an addict getting clean. Hi, I’m Beka and I’m a validation addict.
How to Survive TTC When Your Struggle is Labeled as Normal
I’m here to valid those whose hearts are aching despite their “normal” diagnosis.
Woke vs Awakened
Sleep is for our bodies. Rest is for our souls.
My Way Back To Church
That was what I felt. It was like no matter how many times I called out, the stage was empty and no one heard me.
In the Quiet, In the Crowd
Mental noise The kind that is not specific to anything. The kind that is not discernible. It is just there. That low hum of a screaming crowd. The rushing of constant chatter that never stops.